Experiencing distance in your marriage? Centre of Healing Minds offers expert therapeutic interventions to reignite warmth and foster a deeply connected, emotionally healthy bond with your spouse.
Our team of registered psychotherapists possesses extensive experience in couples therapy Mississauga and specialized training in the Gottman Method. Our empathetic therapists provide a safe and supportive space where you and your partner can effectively communicate, feel understood, and collaboratively resolve conflicts. Access our services conveniently with in-person sessions in Mississauga locations, and secure virtual sessions across Ontario.
What is Gottman Method
The Gottman Method is a proven approach to deepen affection and cultivate mutual respect within your relationship. CoHM couples therapist, specifically trained in this method, skillfully guide you and your partner to uncover and understand each other’s emotional and intellectual landscapes. Through this journey, you’ll gain valuable insights into your partner’s inner world, fostering greater empathy and connection.
A large number of romantic relationships run into rough patches, some of those hard times can cause further disturbance, and it’s advisable to approach early therapeutic intervention. This keeps the relationship healthy. Apart from that, for long-term longevity of the relationship, you will also learn to de-escalate after a conflict, which is very important. Here, find couples therapy near you.
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What is the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy?
One of the most research-based and widely respected methods in relationship counselling is the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The method, built upon their Sound Relationship House theory, has been proven successful over the last 40 years. This comprehensive approach not only focuses on addressing immediate issues but also on building a stronger foundation for long-term connection and resilience.
The therapy method has a very detailed structure that can address a wide range of issues that couples might face. The aim of this method is to improve communication within the couple while also exploring the fondness they have for each other.
Share Love Maps
This foundational principle, residing at the base of the Sound Relationship House, is about how much you know about your partner, including their likes, dislikes, stressors, joys, and history.
Nurture Your Fondness & Admiration
A great relationship depends on a strong friendship, a key level in the Sound Relationship House. This involves showing that you care about the other person and actively focusing on and acknowledging their positive qualities and actions.
Turn Towards Each Other Instead of Away
Even with small gestures, showing care, connection, and affection to each other is how you turn towards each other, building the ‘Turning Towards’ level. In busy professional life, or after a conflict, it’s tough to find that softness again. However, by small everyday moments where you ask about your partner’s day or offer support, you can seize the day and strengthen your bond.
Solve Your Solvable Problems
There are two types of problems in a relationship: solvable and perpetual. The Gottman Method equips couples to effectively address solvable issues – those that don’t have underlying, deep-seated conflict. The ideal is to identify and work through these problems with understanding and compromise, aligning with the ‘Managing Conflict’ level of the Sound Relationship House.
The Four Horsemen
The 4 elements are significant predictors of relationship distress, called The “Four Horsemen“: 1) criticism, 2) defensiveness, 3) contempt, and 4) stonewalling. Avoiding these negative interaction patterns is crucial for fostering a positive perspective within the Sound Relationship House. A lasting relationship thrives on mutual respect, open communication, and fondness for each other.
Create Shared Meaning
Having a shared purpose and understanding of your life together helps strengthen the family, residing at the top of the Sound Relationship House. It’s crucial to build your day-to-day life around shared values, rituals, and goals that are meaningful for both of you.
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What issues can be addressed through the Gottman Method?
Couples who have gone through or are facing these issues can seek help to regain the same strength of relationship that they crave. Our skilled therapists in Gottman therapy can help with:
- Communication Gaps or Barriers
- Trust Issues
- Conflict Resolution
- Emotional or Physical Distance
- Resentment and Anger
- Infidelity
Who can benefit from Gottman Therapy?
Gottman Therapy is suitable for multiple kinds of couples, including:
- Married or unmarried couples
- LGBTQ+ couples
- Couples recovering from infidelity or major trust issues
- Partners navigating life transitions (parenthood, relocation, retirement)
- Couples who want to enhance a good relationship and make it even better
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Our Therapist
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Gottman Couples Therapy Sessions
Our therapy for couples include in-person (Oakville) and virtual throughout Ontario with experienced therapists. These sessions focus on improving and increasing communication, resolving conflict, and deepening emotional intimacy while de-escalating the negative responses.
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Comprehensive Relationship Assessment
We start with a detailed relationship assessment, including joint and individual interviews, along with Gottman’s standardized assessment tools. This helps us draft the therapy experience to your unique dynamics.
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Conflict Management Coaching
We guide couples through the process of managing conflict constructively using Gottman’s research-based tools. Learn how to de-escalate arguments, and listen actively without judging.
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Building Emotional Connection
Through structured exercises, we help you rejuvenate your emotional bond, rebuild trust, and strengthen your “Love Maps,” a key Gottman concept for understanding your partner on a deeper level.
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Trust and Intimacy Repair
Whether you’re healing from betrayal or emotional distance, we offer support to help restore trust, rebuild safety, and revive physical and emotional closeness in your relationship.
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Customized Home Practices
We provide personalized take-home tools and exercises designed to reinforce session work and help you practice effective communication and connection in everyday life.
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Pre-Marital & Relationship Enrichment Packages
For couples preparing for marriage or looking to enhance an already strong relationship, we offer structured packages that strengthen your foundation and future-proof your bond.
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How does it work?
We begin with joint and individual assessments to identify relationship challenges and understand your current level of connection. This initial phase also involves a research-backed online questionnaire, providing valuable insights into your unique relationship dynamics.
Throughout our sessions, we prioritize strengthening your emotional connection and intimacy while guiding you to navigate conflict constructively. We regularly assess the impact of therapy on both your relationship and individual well-being.
Our ultimate goal is to foster a deeper bond and equip you with the skills to maintain a positive and healthy relationship long-term, while also supporting your individual mental health.
Call us today 647-779-9644 or book 10 min free consultation. We offer in-person (couples therapy in Mississauga), and online counselling services throughout Ontario.


